I am passionate about teaching people how to open up to their full sexual capacity.  So you can all enjoy the most amazing, connected sexual experiences possible. Our sexual energy is our life force and when we can tap into that, everything else flows.  Imagine how amazing life can be when you are an empowered in your sexuality.


I am also passionate about sustainable relationships.  A relationship where you have a deep and intimate connection which continually makes your bond stronger. A relationship where you are a contribution to each other and your love grows deeper.

Empowered Conscious Sexuality

From Prude to Pleasure

My Journey and Teachings of Becoming a Sex Therapist

The number one question I’ve been asked since 2010 has been: “What made you become a Sex Therapist”?

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Pauline Ryland | Relationship Coach and Sex Therapist

Relationship Coach & Sex Therapist

Hello, my name is Pauline Ryeland, Intimacy Whisperer and one of the things I’m passionate about is sustainability in relationships, which is how I became a relationship coach.

But what does that look like?

It’s a relationship where you learn effective ways to communicate with each other and actually hear each other.  This is also achieved by learning how to be fully present with each other.  It’s also a relationship where you can deepen your intimate connection which then flows onto having amazing sex!

Now I’m sure we’d all like that, wouldn’t we?

Upcoming Events & Speaking Engagements


October 12th to 15th

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Couples Workshop

November 11th & 12th, 2023
February 11th & 12th, 2024
April 20th & 21st, 2024

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Publications where articles have appeared and events & expos where I have spoken …