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Sexual Awakening – What Does That Mean?


Pauline Ryeland, Intimacy Whisperer talks about sexual energy and how we can awaken it.


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Pauline discusses some of the key aspects of sexual connection and how to deepen our sexual experiences with ourselves and a partner.

Listen to the recording and discover:
 1. What sexual energy is
2. How to get more out of your sexual experience
3. How to manipulate the sexual energy

4. How it’s possible to go further than we can possibly imagine in our sexual experience
5. How to become more connected to our bodies so we can experience more with our intimacy
6. The role self-love and care plays in our sexual experience

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Hormone Health and The Importance of Getting the Right Balance



Episode 8 – 25 April with Kimberley Campbell-Zeltner



In this episode, we discussed the importance of:

• Understanding how our hormonal and Emotional Health effects all aspects of our being
• Why it is important to Understand Your Menstrual Cycle
• How Healthy Hormones Lead to a Healthy Conception and a Healthy Pregnancy and a Healthy Baby

We also talked about the different cycles of women’s health from menstruation, pregnancy, after birth, aging of the body, levels of energy and menopause and how hormones play a huge role in these areas.

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We also covered the 5 top tips to managing your hormone levels:

  1.   How nutrition plays a vital role in the effects on our hormonal cycles. How good nutrition fuels our bodies and how important it is to eat the right foods and have the right balance.
  2.  How detoxing the body on a regular basis is important to reset the body. Not just with the food you intake. Also looking at what products you use on your skin, for your hair, your body as well as looking at what you use for your menstruation because standard tampons and pads are full of pesticides and bleach.
  3. How meditation plays a vital role in hormonal balance as it creates a more calmer and peaceful place to function from.
  4. How charting your cycle plays a huge role in ascertaining what is going on in your body.
  5. Managing stress levels and how that also supports optimal hormone functions.

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For more information about managing your hormonal health go to: and download her free Ebook “10 Steps to Building a Healthy Menstrual Cycle”
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Kimberley’s mission is to educate and empower women to be the best version of themselves. To be well informed about their body, and take control of their Hormone Health.

Kimberley has been in private practice since 1999, supporting individuals to look at their personal challenges and address the relationship of mind, body, emotion and spirit. She is of the view that the most effective way to complete healing is through looking at each individual as a whole person.

Kimberley has studied an array of modalities that have supported her own personal journey and uses these teachings to support women on their specific and personal path. She works with the psychology of the body to restore flow, function and balance. Her passion for nutrition and good food allows her to include this as part of healing as a whole.

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Don’t forget to send any questions you may have relating to intimacy, sex, relationships and everything in between to Pauline at or you can go via the website

Please let Pauline know if you’d like to take her up on a free 15 conversation.

Listen in to the next Intimacy Whisperer program: 3pm Monday, 6 May, USA Pacific time and 9am Tuesday, 7 May Qld time with a special guest to be confirmed.

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Masculine and the Feminine – What Does it Mean?


Episode 7 –  11 May with Dane Tomas who is an Author, Creator and Personal Development Innovator



In this episode, we talked about the masculine and fe,inine within us.  What it actually means and how that effects our relating in the world in all aspects of life. whether in business. relationships and intimacy.  We discussed how this makes up a person’s individual essence.

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We looked at the traditional role of the masculine essence which is a more direct and penetrative capacity with qualities of the strong physical, ability to focus, determination and getting things done. Whereas the traditional role of the feminine essence is the receptive, flowing, creative, softer qualities.

We also discussed:
• How to bring them into balance and the tools you can use to assist with that
• The traditional Archetypes and the original blue prints
• Understanding the two polarities and the dance of the energy of both
• Bringing this into relationships
• Clearing our baggage that we pick up on an unconscious level
• Working with our shadow to bring about awareness and healing

Dane has created a process for setting people free from the baggage that is holding them back called “The Spiral”. You can contact Dane via

This was a fascinating and interesting discussion where we covered so much more, including:

  • How our conditioning shapes us and how that affects our relationships
  • How the development and integration of our own masculine and feminine is central to having healthy relationships, healthy sexual connection and healthy lives in general.

I thoroughly enjoyed talking with Dane and you can either listen to the replay here or download the full episode:…/the-intimacy-whisperer-with-…

Remember to send any questions you may have relating to intimacy, sex, relationships and everything in between to Pauline at or you can go via the website

Please let Pauline know if you’d like to take her up on a free 15 conversation.




Scars And How They Effect Your Sex Life



Episode 6- 28 March 2017 with Ellen Heed


In this episode I interview Sexological Body Worker, Ellen Heed. Ellen is also co-founder of STREAM: Scar Tissue Remediation, Eduation and Management Professional Develomemt Training Program.

You can listen to this scintillating, sexy show:

In this episode, we talked about the benefits of overcoming debilitating scar-related sexual pain: HOW scars can distance you from you love life, your sexuality, and your intimate partner and how you can help yourself!

• EVERYONE with a body has had an injury, a surgery, an infection, or cancer treatment that may have left them with scar tissue.
• How scar tissue can be formed from a variety of issues from bladder infections, endometriosis to back pain
• Scars from childbirth injuries, pelvic, or abdominal surgeries can cause painful sex.
• Scars are not optional, but discomfort is.
• Three ways you can alleviate scar discomfort.
• The best person to help with scars in your pelvic floor.

Ellen is a certified Sexological Bodyworker, which gives her the scope of practice to work directly with genital tissues in the state of California. She educates clients about their erotic possibilities, using genital mapping as a process. Her goal is to uncover the authentic erotic voice of the body, celebrating each victory as my clients explore every pleasurable molecule of their genuine human skin.

However, if you tune in there is a whole lot more to it. We discussed how the bio-mechanical and bio-chemical imprints effect each individual situation as well and we give plenty of examples.

We also discussed how this work is not documented and researched in ways that the medical world has the awareness how scar tissue can show up and effect sexual function.

For people located in the USA you can contact Ellen at or for people located in Australia, go to

Not only did we discuss how internal scars, known as adhesions effect women with painful sex. how they can also impact men with their sexual function as well and the sensitivity men can experience from circumcision.

This is by far one of the most fascinating interviews so far. 
 It is a fabulous conversation!

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Relationships, Intimacy, Sex & Everything in Between

Episode 5, 14 March 2017


In this episode our special guest was unable to join us at the last minute.  So we decided to talk about the above topic.

Pauline Ryeland, Intimacy Whisperer® Pauline works as an Intimacy and Sex Coach and Educator and is a certified NLP Practitioner, Subconscious Re-programmer, Coach, Hypnotherapist, Certified Tantra Teacher and Educator and a Certified Sexological Body Worker.

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In this episode, she talks about:

  • Relationships and the traps we fall into of demand and expectation
  • Asks questions that challenge you on what is possible in a relationship
  • Explores how to communicate more effectively
  • Explains how intimacy can be deepened and how it can enhance your love life
  • Discusses libido and why it can disappears

Pauline also discusses how disconnected we are from ourselves and each other and how learning to be in the body and becoming present can make an enormous difference in your relating, communication and intimacy.She also takes you through 2 different NLP processes to get in touch with your past erotic, sexy self.

  • The first one, taps you into a past erotic memory and brings it into the conscious memory
  • The second process allows you to take something from this memory that you would like to bring into your life and puts it into your future timeline

Both processes are incredibly powerful and helps to bring your sexy back, turn your libido up and turn your libido on if the fire’s gone out.
It is a fabulous lesson!

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Don’t forget to send any questions you may have relating to intimacy, sex, relationships and everything in between to Pauline at or you can go via the website

Please let Pauline know if you’d like to take her up on a free 15 conversation.





Pussy Talks – What’s It All About?

flower vag 2 Episode 4, 28 March 2017

In this interview I talk with Special Guest, The Pussy Talks:  The Production of Peace on Earth Founder, Mukee Okan.

Mukee Okan is the creator of The Pussy Talks™ and is the embodiment of what life looks like when humanity is free from sexual shame.

In this episode, we talked about what The Pussy Talks is all about. Which is

• Enhancing the sexual well being of humanity. 
• That is possible being at peace with the power of sex
• What is possible for you, your life, your relationships? 
• How your sexual energy is your most potent and natural healing medicine


A documentary with a Very Big difference?


The documentary shows up close footage of women’s vulva’s with the woman talking about her pussy and her relationship to it as well as asking what her pussy would like to say. It’s incredible on many levels as women connect to their genitals, feel into their experience and share from a very personal and sometimes vulnerable place.

The beauty with this documentary is that it shows the varieties of women’s vulvas and how each has their own individuality in relation to what their inner labia looks like and their clitoris.

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I believe everyone who watches the pussy talks will learn a great deal, not only about “pussy’s”, they will also have huge takeaways about their own relationship to vulvas’s, whether it’s their own or others in general.

For more information about this please go to 

A Shamanic Native American Indian Teaching


I also ask about Mukee’s role as a teacher of the Quodoshka teachings and what it’s all about. Quodoshka is a matriarchal shamanic lineage, teaching which in essence is the understanding of how our sexual energy is our life force.

Quodoshka 1 is based on what was the rights of passage for young boys and girls transitioning into adult women and men and focuses on self. Learning to let go of past experiences.

Quodoshka 2 is more about the balance of the masculine and the feminine within and without, not your sexual preference. It’s about relating to the receptive and active side in relating to the world. Learning to let go of the future focus and the angry man and woman.

Quodoshka 3 is how you function in relationship and laying aside the past and future and being present with your partner and yourself in all aspects of your being.

The Quodoshka teachings are worldwide and have been taught for over 30 years. 

We also discussed her being a part of the Institute of Professional Surrogates Association in California and what this role entails as a therapist, involving sensate focus practices.

Mukee has over 30 years experience in the areas of sex, sex education, coaching and is a wealth of information. It was such an honour to talk with her this morning and I am very grateful for having met Mukee in 2009 at a Quodoshka workshop, which had a profound effect on me and put me on this path that I am currently on as a sexual educator and coach.

It is a fabulous conversation!

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LGBTI…Clinical Sexologist…What’s It All About?

papers in the colors of gay pride flag with pink heart Episode 3, 14 Febuary 2017 – Coach on Fire Radio

In this episode you will find out as I interview Richelle Menzies who works extensively in the LGBTI community, working as an Inclusivity Consultant. She travels around Australia, offering trainings, workshops and education.

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This was an information packed show with loads of information.  Richelle has a vast knowledge of all things related to the LGBTI community and shared numerous organisations where people can obtain support for their particular situation.  Whether it’s a young person confused about gender or sexuality or parents wanting to understand more and support.

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We also discussed what a Clinical Sexologist is and the differences between this and a Sexological Body Worker.  All round it was a fabulous conversation and showed what a huge wealth of knowledge Richelle has, due to her working within the community and health sector for over 10 years plus in a variety of roles within Qld Aids.

We talked about Richelle’s extensive contribution, working as a volunteer for many years and the awards of recognition she has received.

I asked what drives her, especially as she starts her new chapter, moving into private practice within the next year as a Clinical Sexologist.

“I would like people to feel confident that with support sexual issues can be overcome, they can remain erotic and intimate for as long as they desire, that diversity in identity, lifestyle and relationships is part of the wonderful tapestry of life, that nothing is too scary to talk about, they are not abnormal or alone and that help is out there,” says Richelle.

I love the connection we have and I have a feeling that we may just do something together in a working capacity down the track.

It’s a very interesting and informative interview, so check it out.

Shamanic Midwifery and Ecstatic Birth

Newborn infant swaddled against a mother's breast


Episode 2, 31st January 2017 – Coach on Fire Radio

In this episode I interview Avalon Darnesh who is a Multidimensional Mother, Shamanic Birthkeeper and Feminine Visionary, inspiring soulful mothers to unlock their inner wisdom and reclaim their sexual power to ecstatically birth babies in the highest vibration of love, and birth new aspects of themselves

Here is the link to this episode:–episode-2


What on earth does that all mean?


Well if you’re curious….I suggest you tune in and have a listen to the recording.  We did have a bit of technical trouble at the beginning, however the interview does settle in beautifully.

It was fabulous talking with Avalon and we could have talked for hours. She is a very switched on young woman that is very much in touch with the mind, body and spirit connection and how that plays out through pregnancy and birth. We talk about intimacy and sex during pregnancy as well as afterwards.

What I loved about this interview is firstly how easy it was to talk with Avalon and it felt like we were old friends. Some of the highlights for me were:

  • I loved that we looked at how birth can be done in a very different way to how it generally is and how it is usually portrayed.
  • How pregnancy and birth can encompass the mind, body, spirit connection to allow for this amazing experience to transcend all other experiences.
  • How a woman can tap into their sexuality and bring that into the birthing experience
  • Having a better understanding of what happens in the body through pregnancy and birth on all levels.
  • Having open conversations pre-pregnancy at how intimacy and sex can potentially look throughout the pregnancy and early baby days.

So if that’s intrigued you then, here’s the link again:–episode-2

“Birth is the ultimate sexual opening and a gateway into deeper levels of sensual embodiment and intuition. Everything you need is already within you. By learning how to be fully present to what is arising, and feel uncomfortable feelings without denying or distracting them, you have the capacity to heal and evolve into your highest potential. Birth is an opportunity for a total nervous system upgrade and deepening into more of your love and sexuality as a woman,” says Avalon.
After escaping an abusive relationship and becoming a single mother, Avalon studied Holistic Psychology, Counselling, Rebirthing and Shamanic Midwifery to heal herself and support other women to reclaim their feminine power.

Kink, BDSM & Adult Fantasy Play


leather cuffs and a whip on a chainEpisode 1, 17 January 2017

In this Virgin Premiere show I interview Aleena Aspley, who is a Somatic Sexologist and the owner of Kinkassage®.

Here’s the link:  (please note there a few ads at the start)

Intrigued? Curious?


So was I and I wanted to explore with Aleena a little bit about her world and how she brings this to her clients. She incorporates the Kink & Bondage worlds with erotic massage all designed to open the client up to experiencing pleasure in ways they have not experienced it before.

We talk in depth about her business and what’s involved with her work. What I love about this interview is that our conversation is so natural and just flows. We both just happen to work in the world of intimacy and sex and it’s all just another day for us.

This was definately an intriguing, steamy and thought provoking episode with an honest and open discussion about sex.

In this episode, learn;

• What Kinkassage® and Domme Kinkassage® is?
• BDSM & Kink is all about in all it’s forms
• The mindset of those involved in BDSM & Kink.
• How men can be multi orgasmic

We also discuss how people can start playing in this area at home and provide some great starting points which include:

– How to play safely
– How communication is essential
– How to discuss your requirements as the receiver and giver
– Being clear with your agreements

If these guidelines are not set up then trust cannot be there and this is paramount for this type of play.

We also talk about how the person receiving can go into a very altered state and how important the after care is.

So have I sparked your interest? Do you want to find out more?


Well dive in and have a listen to this interview:  (please note there a few ads at the start)

Let me know what you think?

What I love about this interview is that:

– We talk so openly about sex in all aspects
– We could explore the world of BDSM & Kink and talk about different aspects of that
– That we were able to provide some guidelines to begin these practices at home safely
– We talked about the fact that men can be multi orgasmic and what that looks like
– Plus we touched on a few other topics as well!

Have a listen and then let me know what you think. I’d love to hear your feedback.

Next interview will be announced shortly on Facebook and will be live on Tuesday, 31st January at 9am Qld time and 3pm USA.

PS: If there are any topics you’d like discussed, please let me know. And if you have someone you think that would be great for me to interview, please also let me know. xx

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