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It's all the different reasons why people have lost their libido — not just the physical but the emotional and mental as well. Getting them more connected to themselves is the first step before teaching them to activate their sexual energy.

Australian 'intimacy whisperer' Pauline Ryeland sees around 100 clients and says that the most frequently discussed topic during their sessions tends to be either the loss of libido or the loss of erections.

WITH Valentine’s Day looming on the horizon, Coast intimacy coach Pauline Ryeland says it is a good time for couples to work on tightening their bonds.

The Australian “intimacy whisperer” said loss of libido is one of the biggest causes of concern. Among her clients, there are also a sizeable number that worry about erectile dysfunction.

A sex therapist has revealed that many of her clients share the same issues, with one extremely common among men and another for women. 'Intimacy Whisperer' Pauline Ryeland has revealed that one of her most asked questions is around the loss of libido or the loss of erections.

After a breakup, any number of things can happen. If it's bitter, you may never wish to see your ex again. If the chemistry fizzled, you could find a friendship blooming in its place. It's not always smooth sailing, though, warns relationship coach Pauline Ryeland.

Sometimes it can be challenging to get that spark back in your relationship for a variety of reasons. Let’s be honest after having a baby and all the demands being a new mother can have on you, the thought of being intimate can often be the last thing on your mind.

There are a myriad of things you can do to get your sexy back. When you get dressed nicely and put some makeup on, you always feel good which makes you feel sexy. It’s not just what you’re wearing that contributes to feeling sexy it’s what you’re wearing underneath.

There can be many reasons why losing interest in a partner can happen. If you would like to reignite the attraction to your spouse, it’s important to look at all aspects of why this has occurred as this will influence what solution to consider.

This was a challenge to write about as I don’t personally have experience of infidelity. I reached out to my subscribers for their input and I was overwhelmed with the responses.

Intimacy and delicious sex isn’t a given in all romantic relationships but it is something you can create and then keep forever. Couples who decide to create and care for their sex life can go on to have delicious sex forever.

Couples should take the attachment and pressure of having sex off the table. Instead, focus on your connection and intimacy, this will give you longer-term benefits than having sex just for the sake of it.

They hear our innermost thoughts and desires, but a surprising number of us have the same bugbears between the sheets. Men, however, have a new issue.