Why Does Our Sex Drive Hit SNOOZE sometimes?

Has Your Sex Drive Hit The Snooze Button? Cosmopolitan Magazine

There are a myriad of reasons why this can happen, we are tired, busy, have too many demands on us yet really these are all just issues on the surface.  We may use these as excuses however if we really dig down below the surface there is a lot more going on.

The majority of the time we disconnect from ourselves because we are so busy doing that we forget about being.  It’s important to keep the sexy sizzling all the time, sometimes it can turn into a bit of a simmer and we have to turn the heat up so to speak but too often it just gets pushed aside as it’s not a priority.

What most women are not aware of is that it’s important to keep the sexual energy flowing, when it gets pushed aside or shut down, it effect’s all areas of you life.  The sexual energy is your life force or your life centre and when that is shut down, or on snooze it starts to effect other areas of your life. It effects your emotional well being, you health, your relationships as well as your creativity and abundance.

So How Do You Keep Your Sex Drive OFF The Snooze Button?

Connect in with yourself, we disconnect from ourselves too easily, so do some things that assist you to be present with yourself and
conscious. When you can connect in with yourself fully then you can connect in with your partner fully if you are in a relationship.

Bring some balance into your life around self nurture, diet, spirituality, health, exercise, emotional well being, fun and play.  When you are taking care of yourself in all these areas then everything will flow and your sexy will be back and you won’t be hitting that snooze button anymore.

Here’s a few ideas to help you get started, love yourself fully for who you are, you are unique and there is only one of you,  wear sexy lingerie a lot, don’t save it for special, wear it under your track pants or don’t wear any at all.  Get naked as much as possible so you are comfortable with yourself, if you are home alone do the housework naked, it can be extremely liberating.  Take time out
for a bath, meditate, do some yoga or pilates.  If you don’t exercise, you are missing out on those endorphins and they are pretty sexy, eat good healthy food and most importantly have some fun!

 

5 Responses to Why Does Our Sex Drive Hit SNOOZE sometimes?

  • LOVE it Pauline and BTY FYI I do do all this and MORE PLEASE SIR!!!

    xoxoxox Lou Lou

  • Great article Pauline and congratulations on the inclusion in the mag….woohoo 🙂

    • Thank you so much for your feedback and I am just a little bit excited about being quoted in Cosmopolitan, even if it is only 2 sentences!

  • Hi Pauline all great points. I think sex can also take a snooze when partners don’t understand each others love language. I believe our love languages and sex can go together in a long term relationship. Subtle small changes and making an effort to understand the love language of a partner can quickly awaken the sexual interest again.

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